A Resource Even More Important Than Money

time-managementLife is an amazing journey. Once it starts, we are in for countless experiences which will forever affect us one way or another. How we choose to think will always be the single most important factor in determining the quality of our lives. It is crucial to realize and acknowledge that our experiences are simply just that, our experiences.

Simply put, there are certain aspects of life which absolutely must be under our control in order to live life to the fullest.

Two of the most important aspects in life are how we choose to think about and experience time and money. These are the two critical resources which will greatly affect how a person lives their life. In order for us to be able to do what we want, when we want, we must be in charge and control of these very resources. Without question, time and money are two extremely precious resources to any human being.

The focus of this article will be to talk about time, which I believe to be the single most valuable resource in life.

Time is simply fascinating.

The biggest challenge in trying to comprehend time is to give up the concept of linear time. Opposite to what you may have always believed there is no such thing as past or future. There is ONLY one time and that is the present, the NOW. This second, or this moment is the only time that ever existed and that will ever exist. Life or time is simply a stream of NOWs, one after another, ongoing forever and ever into infinity.

Clocks and calendars are simply human made measurement and accountability tools when dealing with time.

What humans call the past is nothing more than a way to refer to the NOWs which have already passed. What we call the future is also nothing more than a way to refer to the NOWs which have yet to come.

When an individual chooses their actions in the NOW, the present, with deliberate intent and in accordance with a plan, they are literally creating the recipe for a fulfilled life

Ask most adults what is the one thing they would do differently in life if there were to go back and live all over again and you are guaranteed to hear many say they would choose to spend their time differently.

Another miss-perception when relating to time is not having enough. You may often hear people say, “I don’t have time to….” When you hear someone say that, always remind yourself that there is no such thing as not having enough time. Everyone has time, and they have a choice to spend it as they desire. When someone says they don’t have time, what they are really saying is that they choose to spend their time doing something else.

Always remember, the greatest people on earth, those who have left magnificent legacies behind, had exactly the same amount of time as everyone else – 24 hours in a day, yet they were able to get so much more done because they chose to spend it with deliberate intent and in accordance with a plan.

If you find yourself running from one task to another, and not “having time” for anything, STOP, and ask yourself this question: “Why am I doing what I am doing right now?” Take some time to establish what you really want out of life, that which is important to you, and only choose to do that which you truly desire.

Establishing priorities is also a key to getting more done in the same amount of time. By doing things and spending time performing activities which really matter, we are constantly adding more to the bottom line.

One of the best ways to make better use of time is to do one or a combination of the following three strategies; eliminate, automate, delegate.

You may often find yourself performing “pointless” activities such as reading the news, watching excessive television, or aimlessly surfing the Internet. You can literally create more time to accomplish different objectives by eliminating some of these activities.

Technology is so great! If you find yourself buried in paperwork, take some time to research how you may automate current tasks by using computer software. You will all of a sudden find yourself with more free time to perform other tasks.

Unless you gain tremendous satisfaction from mowing the lawn, washing your car, or running certain errands, you could choose to delegate these tasks for a very small amount of money and use the same time and energy to involve yourself in more meaningful activities.

Another reason why I believe time to be the most valuable resource, even more precious than money, is because time cannot be replaced. Money certainly can be. Once a day, or a month, or a year is spent doing whatever we choose, there is no going back and changing what took place.

A great way to look at time and making the most of it is to give your 100% attention to tasks at present. For example, when you are at work or involved with your professional obligations, avoid performing activities unrelated to work. When you are at home spending time with your children, steer clear from taking work related phone calls or checking your email every 2 hours.

One of the best ways to manage and deal with time is to schedule everything meticulously. Schedule time to check email twice a day, schedule time for spending a certain amount of time with each of your children every week, and schedule time where you and your spouse can be alone and intimate. Schedule, schedule, schedule. The more you do this, the better you will become at it.

For the most part, there are certain activities which we perform everyday. Having a success routine is essential to a content life. My personal success routine includes the following four activities daily; meditating, exercising, eating healthy, and educating by reading or listening to tapes/CD’s everyday.

Create your own success routine and you will typically find yourself in a content state of mind regardless of the day to day stresses of life.


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Give, Give More, Then Keep On Giving

“You give but little when you give of your possessions. It is when you give of yourself that you truly give.” Kahlil Gibran

You may have thought that you did not have anything to give until you read the quote above. The truth is you have more to give than you can possibly imagine. And I agree with Khalil wholeheartedly “when you give of yourself that you truly give.”

So what does he mean by that? Well it is definitely a very deep thought and I will do my best to explore it on multiple levels with you, as if we were peeling back layers of an onion anxious to know what is at the core.

Giving in material objects shows tremendous heart. It shows that you are thoughtful and want to show your appreciation by giving back. It is admirable and we can both do it more often, whether it is simply sending someone you care about a Thank You fruit basket or sponsoring children in need through World Vision. Giving just feels great!

What I really want to talk to you about today though is giving those things which we cannot measure with a price tag…

You and I both know that our time here on planet Earth is limited… As a matter of fact, the moment we are born the countdown has started backwards slowly crawling towards the time when you and I will no longer be here. Remember now, we both came with nothing material and when we pass on we will leave with nothing material. With that thought in the back of our minds… let’s establish what is really important to us and what does it mean to truly give of yourself!

Ahhh… now those are both beautiful thoughts.

The things that are really important to us are the ones that money can’t buy. To name a few… we got Time, Health, Family, Relationships, Reputation, Happiness, Passion, Forgiveness, Courage, Ambition, Faith… and much much more. How’s that for a refresher!?

Now that we have our mind soaked with what is truly important to us I believe to truly give of yourself is to take yourself out of your own problems and issues enough to sincerely listen to another person in need. Then without being asked, do anything and everything possible to be of service to a fellow human being given the resources you have at your disposal.

It could be a simple phone call to ask a long time friend just to see how they are doing and what they are up to…

It could be a simple thank you note to the one person on your staff that always goes above and beyond without ever being asked to do it…

It could be a sincere smile to a person who you know can definitely use some cheering up…

It could be a hug to someone you know that just experienced a loss and wants to give up all hope in life…

It could be asking your significant other if there is anything you can do to make their life better… and easier…

It could be….. you get the idea!

So, how can you get started today by giving of yourself?

Let’s start with Family, considering that the environment we are raised in forever shapes our lives, there must be a reason why you have the family that you have. Your father is a certain way and your mother is a certain way for you to become a certain way. You may or may not have brothers and sisters and either way your personality and who you are will be affected by them one way of the other.

So with that said, it would be safe to agree that the people who are in your immediate family are part of the very divine structure that you yourself are a product of… So how about the next time you are with your family, you keep this article in mind and seize the opportunity to give of yourself?

Just keep it simple. It will be worth it… that, I can guarantee!

So remember, Give, Give More, Then Keep On Giving.


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The Most Powerful Poem I have Ever Read In My Life

I hold it true that thoughts are things;
They’re endowed with bodies and breath and wings;
And that we send them forth to fill
The world with good results, or ill.
That which we call our secret thought
Speeds forth to earth’s remotest spot,
Leaving its blessings or its woes
Like tracks behind it as it goes.
We build our future thought by thought,
For good or ill, yet know it not.
Yet, so the universe was wrought.
Thought is another name for fate;
Choose, then, thy destiny and wait,
For love brings love and hate brings hate.

-Henry Van Dyke


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Timeless Wisdom

I Like these daily reminders:

1. What you put out comes back all the time, no matter what.

2. You define your own life. Don’t let other people write your script.

3. Whatever someone did to you in the past has no power over the present. Only you give it power.

4. When people show you who they are, believe them the first time. (A lesson from Maya Angelou.)

5. Worrying is wasted time. Use the same energy for doing something about whatever worries you.

6. What you believe has more power than what you dream or wish or hope for. You become what you believe.

7. If the only prayer you ever say is thank you, that will be enough. (From the German theologian and humanist Meister Eckhart.)

8. The happiness you feel is in direct proportion to the love you give.

9. Failure is a signpost to turn you in another direction.

10. If you make a choice that goes against what everyone else thinks, the world will not fall apart.

11. Trust your instincts. Intuition doesn’t lie.

12. Love yourself and then learn to extend that love to others in every encounter.

13. Let passion drive your profession.

14. Find a way to get paid for doing what you love. Then every paycheck will be a bonus.

15. Love doesn’t hurt. It feels really good.

16. Every day brings a chance to start over.

17. Being a mother is the hardest job on earth. Women everywhere must declare it so.

18. Doubt means don’t. Don’t move. Don’t answer. Don’t rush forward.

19. When you don’t know what to do, get still. The answer will come.

20. “Trouble don’t last always.”


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Your Relationships Define You

I recently attended an amazing seminar by Anil Gupta. To put it simply, it forever changed my life! Here are my notes from the day so you can benefit too!

There is no trying.

The words that you use define your life.

Namaste is ONE powerful greeting. It means, the God (or light) In Me acknowledges the God (or light) in You.

Ask open ended questions.

There’s nothing anyone else can do to make you upset. You choose it yourself.

What other people think of me is none of my business.

We are Born w/ avg 235 relationships. The common thread in all those is you.

Listen to the greatness others speak of in you.

Little imperfections make us perfect.

Choose to see more humor in humanity.

We don’t know how much time we have together.

Work on yourself and everything will take care if itself.

Who you are being is far more important than what you say.

Infinite patience produces immediate results.

Expectations always lead to upsets.

Humans love to be right.

It’s not really about what happens to us, rather who we become.

The quality of your life is dependent about upon the quality of your questions you ask yourself consistently.

Instead of judging myself, I observe myself.

Clarity is power.

You need to know where you are.

You will always get to where you get to.

Awareness -> clarity -> power -> results -> success -> fulfillment.

Hence become aware and be fulfilled.

When would now be a good time.

If God is with me, who can be against me.

Know. Know that you don’t know. Don’t know that you don’t know.

Kid. Pool. Mom. Drowning. God analogy.

Regrets are the lies that our mind tells us.

Tasks require input.

I choose to be healthy, eat small lean meals. And be fit.

Look within for all your problems. All solutions are within you.

Detachment is the key to fulfillment.

Mind sets expectations.

Choose an introspective approach.

The answer can only come from within the individual.

Perfection is not achievable.

Definition of Love = acceptance.

Humans are Meaning making machines.

The answer can only come from within another person.

Success is progress.

Ask myself is what I am doing to serve/please me or someone else…

Work on ourselves first, always.

Who I spend time with is who I become.

The definition of love is acceptance.

My love for my friends & family is and will always be unconditional.

Honor others imperfections.

Dating can be acting.

Filters are our belief/pre-conceived notions towards another person or situation.

Make your partner #1 in your life so your kids can learn to make their Partner #1 in their lives.

The past does not create the future. It has simply brought us to where we are today. The boat moves forward because of it’s propellers not because of the wake.

I am conscious that I want to help everyone.

For you to change your life… You must change.

The quality of your communication will determine the quality of a relationship

It’s not what you say but how you say it.

Train others how to deal with you.

There is nothing to try. You either do things or you don’t.

Listening is communication.

Eye contact is communication.

Your communication makes your relationships thrive

The ultimate secret to life is gratitude.


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